I must say, this concept has passed certain stages of evolution from the moment of its occurrence in the 30s of the 19th century. It meant then a woman who already has quite adult children who do not interfere with periodically going out, and they themselves will soon be presented to society. Such women were well educated, could always support the conversation, no matter what topic she was held. Charming, educated – in a word, a real woman. Well, in view of the fact that it takes a lot of time to visit balls, raows and other solemn events, such women could not work.
Oddly enough, transferred to Russia, this phrase has become almost offensive to women to which. This was due to the fact that not to work was considered unworthy of any person, including women.
Who are the socialite today? Personality is quite bright, shocking everyone with its behavior in public, dressed exquisitely and expensive, although often tasteless. They are constantly in front of the public and only their appearance is already a sensation. They do not let the paparazzi miss and constantly throw them the ideas of shocking pictures. They are rich, but do not value money. They go to rest, several times a year in luxurious hotels. Here, in fact, briefly – a portrait of modern socialite lionesses.
Is it worth it? The answer is unequivocal: this is not, but the true socialite, in the first, initial meaning of this concept – of course, yes. What is required for this? A lot of. But every woman is quite possible!
First of all, this, of course, is education. Moreover, the concepts of "education" and "diploma" should not be confused. No matter how regrettable, the presence of the so -called “crust” has not made anyone smarter or more interesting in communication. To be educated means to understand the main areas of modern life, to be able to maintain a conversation about absolutely everything, and not just about fashion or the last melodrama released on the screen.
Next – etiquette. It would seem that the elementary set of rules that should be followed is none. Paradox, but many girls today will not even be able to answer without hesitation than the coffee cup differs from tea! This is not to mention the variety of other devices. But to purchase and study the book on the basics of etiquette is not such a difficult task, moreover, not requiring a huge amount of your time.
Well, of course, style. Always dress according to occasion, do not try to blindly follow fashion – just remain yourself and wear what is right for you.