One of the worst nightmares in a woman’s life is men’s treason. The feelings that we experience cannot be described even a thousand words. Suspecting the adventures of the missus or catching it on the hot, what to do? What tactics to choose?
Signs of betrayal
“He hides something!". If the husband begins to change passwords from the post office and social networks, keep silent about where he was after work, the thought of her husband’s infidelity arises first.
"My mobile phone is my friend". Solitude with the phone, nervousness, when you pick up his samsung, alarms. And the stronger the beloved twitches, the more you affirm in the thought of his adventures to the left.
"New I". New habits of her husband, unusual addictions in sex, unfamiliar words and turns of speech, things that there were previously (lighter, purse, handle, toilet water) in themselves do not indicate treason. Suddenly he read in a male magazine that smoking a hookah is a sign of macho? And you already decided here that he was looking up with his mistress into night duty. But, coupled with other signs, and this one takes place.
"Clean feathers". Shower twice a day with an obligatory ritual of dousing with dressing water, new underwear, bought (for once!) Husband himself, a weekly wardrobe update with stylish branded things – whether you are married to Vasya? Psychologists unanimously declare that the emergence of a new object of love invariably affects the appearance. The man who has lost his head begins to preen, change his hairstyle, take care of himself.
"Honey, my head hurts". Your sexual life undergoes changes. Well, of course, if there is something to change … The husband begins to “philosen”, come up with excuses from intimacy, citing employment at work. And sometimes a husband in a fit of passion can also call you the name of his "work". An anecdote walks on the Web: “He started a mistress. So that the wife does not guess, bought a cat and called Irka. A week later, the wife bought a parrot and called Damir. I’m sitting, I think … ".
There are other signs: sexually transmitted diseases, an unfamiliar smell of spirits by the car and on the clothes of the spouse, other people’s things, “holes” in the family budget, a change in attitude towards you, long delays at work and the frequent business trips.
How to find out the truth? First of all, you need to think: what will you do with this truth? Run all relationships or quietly leave home, arrange a grand scandal or put an ultimatum?
The very first way is possible for those who are not afraid of difficult ways – to openly talk with her husband. Ask all questions, tell about suspicions. It is possible that the traitor is recognized and ask for forgiveness.
The second method is suitable for those who are not yet ready for conversation and want to have a certain evidence base. You need to find the best detective agency and turn to them for help. Professionals will quickly find out the truth and present you evidence. Well, you can already, having trump cards on your hands, use the first way.
The third way is to try to find out everything itself. He is for adventurous women who do not spare time and effort to take the husband to clean water. But I would better turn to specialists equipped with the necessary equipment and have more opportunities to find out the true state of affairs.