Beautiful and happy
“They say not be born beautiful, but be born happy. But how can you find happiness when your beloved man treats you humiliatingly and cruelly, but the dependence on him cannot be overcome ". Many women are faced with such a life situation and do not know how to get out of this vicious circle. We’ll talk today with the Women’s Paradise, about such a family problem as be beautiful and happy.
The complex of masochistic love drives already has its own name – this is "Merilin Monroe Syndrome". Merilin was a beautiful woman, and inside a frightened girl who could not afford to love a worthy person. And because of this she chose men who humiliated her both morally and physically.
The makings of this syndrome can find in themselves many women. And the most amazing thing is that most often these are beauties with a rich inner world. And they all have one common problem: they do not believe in themselves and do not love themselves!
Women suffering from this syndrome want to find their love, but get only disappointment. Because the subconscious of these women requires a similar attitude towards themselves. The origins of this complex should be sought in childhood. Most often, this is an upbringing in a family where the child was left to his own. In other words, all the girls suffering from "Merilin Monroe" syndrome in childhood were disliked. And during the period of personality formation, they have a question: “Why do others love, but I am not?". As a result, realizing this, a matured girl loses the ability to realize herself with a person, love and accept the love of others, and when she matures, all this turns dependent on cruelty. Such women usually choose those men who allow themselves to love, humiliating and rejecting them.
We are treated as we ourselves allow us to relate to ourselves!!!
For such women, the most difficult thing is to realize that you need to change something. And you have to change yourself. This is quite difficult. And the worst thing is that you have to abandon your "master".
How seriously your position, you will understand by analyzing yourself:
Frequent mood changes are inherent in you;
Your chosen one is moving away from you, too passionate about his problems, more often dissatisfied with you for every minor occasion, insults and humiliates;
You are not lucky all the time, one unhappy love is replaced by another;
Other men who show interest in you seem unsuitable for you or you consider yourself inappropriate for them.
But there are no hopeless situations. You must understand that you are not a small defenseless girl, you have enough strength and experience to break this vicious circle. Remember that normal relations are mutual, and you are no less than your partner, you deserve love and respect. It will be better if you are supported by someone close or friends.
Undoubtedly! You must love yourself with unconditional love. Learn to believe in yourself and accept yourself as you are. Of course, this is not easy, so take and change your life, but it is worth doing. After all, then you can choose a completely different man for yourself – a gentle, caring, loving and appreciated you, find your soul mate. And the reward will be the very happiness that bypassed you. And you are not only beautiful, but also happy!
Author: Natalia Konkova